
Fjord Tour from Bergen
One of the last activities we did was take a fjord tour from Bergen. It wasn't the one I wanted ...

Odda, Norway
On the recommendation of a friend, we split our time between Bergen and Odda, a tiny town only a two-hour's ...

Bergen, Norway
It's taken months for me to pull these photos together, and I've lost the ambition to detail each photo with ...

Bergen’s Mountain Cable Car
One of the best ways to see Bergen is from above. Conveniently, the Fløibanen funicular is easy and inexpensive. It's ...

Our Second Graduate
Welp, our homeschooling journey is officially over! I've submitted everything, checked all the boxes, double-checked those boxes, and called it ...

An Emerald Coast Christmas
In 2015, we decided to celebrate Christmas in a non-traditional way -- at the beach, specifically Hilton Head -- to ...

Jackson’s Senior Season
For the record, this is what our youngest cherub used to look like: It is a bizarre phenomena that babies ...

F1 + The Killers
A few months ago, I was scrolling through Instagram on a lazy afternoon while Chuck mowed the lawn. Suddenly, I ...

A New Season
It's been a month since Jeremy graduated from A-School and spent two weeks here before heading off to Japan. I ...

NYC 2023
With a big overseas trip last year, and a big one planned for next year, we stayed stateside this summer ...

Reunited in Santa Fe
Michele and I had a visit scheduled in 2020, but we all know how that year turned out. That means ...

Jackson’s First College Tour
There is something about taking your second (and last) child on a college tour. Homeschooling has been a long journey ...

February So Far
One of the things I'm endeavoring to do this year is see people I haven't seen in a long while, ...

It was a good year.
I'm sharing less these days, which I'm sure you've noticed. In previous years, I shared a lot with readers - ...

A New Normal, For Now
When people decide to start a family, they usually say something like, "Let's have a baby," as if having that ...

A Little Trio of Introverts
There are two questions I get asked regularly. The first is always, "Have you heard from Jeremy?" and the second ...

A Season of Change
Despite the high heat and suffocating humidity that plagues the south every summer, I've been taking long walks almost every ...

Best AirBNB Ever in Vincennes
After researching AirBNBs in Paris and getting discouraged by steep prices and undesirable locations, we scored the best apartment we've ...

Day Two in Paris
Instead of going to the Louvre, which none of the kids cared to do, we got up Tuesday morning and ...

Day One in Paris
Writing about Paris will take several posts because we packed in a lot of places in a little bit of ...

The Swiss Alps
Staying in Hésingue (France) put us in close proximity to northwestern Switzerland. After studying the routes and drive times, along ...

Jackson Turns 16
It is one thing to experience your oldest child turning milestone ages. It is quite another thing to experience it ...

Basel, Switzerland and our stay in Hésingue
When we started planning this trip, we hoped to find lodging in all three countries as the itinerary unfolded, but ...

Beautiful Strasbourg
I've wanted to visit Strasbourg for several years, a charming town in the Alsace region along the Rhine River. Since ...

A Stop in Heidelberg
The bulk of our trip was centered around France, but I didn't want Grafenwöhr to be my family's only German ...

Grafenwöhr in 2022
Over the years, whenever Chuck and I would start talking about our next trip to Europe, the idea of visiting ...

Jeremy Graduates
It's been a roller coaster week, but one of the high points was definitely Jeremy graduating high school. We were ...

Goodbye Sweet Major
When we got Major in January 2013, it had been two and a half years since we'd lost Hank. Our ...

Senior Season
We're only weeks away from Jeremy's graduation, which both unbelievable and a relief. When we decided to homeschool eleven years ...

Second Trip to Lambeau Field
Sometime in mid-December, I got a text from Jim, the author of Green Bay: A City and Its Team, the ...

Second Snow of 2022
The snow started falling in the late afternoon yesterday and didn't stop until this morning. We finally got a good ...

First Snow of 2022
Only in Tennessee would it be 78 degrees with a threat of tornadoes on January 1, followed by a widespread ...

Christmas in Wisconsin
For the second time, we met my sister and her family in Lake Geneva for Christmas, though it was entirely ...

A Long Autumn
It's been a vibrant, lovely autumn, and the season seems to have lasted longer than usual this year. There are ...

21 Years
We have been locking eyes for a long time. It used to be that we'd lock eyes after school when ...

Cross Country Runners
Both boys are running cross country for our local high school, and honest to goodness, we couldn't be more pleased ...

18
The aging of one's children is a curious and cruel set of mathematics. Our firstborn is 18 today, and I'm ...

My Tribe and the Things They Carry
You should know July was a rough month. I said no to several things and spent an inordinate amount of ...

43
Well, here we are again. This time last year, we were in a very different space, but no matter how ...

Four weeks and counting
The school year is creeping up on me, and I don't appreciate it. My summertime priorities have been on point ...

Costa Rica: Day 6
Wednesday was our last full day in Costa Rica, so we kept the day light and planned a special dinner ...

Costa Rica: Day 5
On our fifth day, Chuck and I got up early to drive around the property to take photos and then ...

Costa Rica: Day 4
One of the things Becky and I wanted to do in Costa Rica was see a sloth. We'd talked about ...

Costa Rica: Day 3
One of the activities we booked in advance was a four-hour sunset catamaran cruise with snorkeling. It was an excursion ...

Costa Rica: Days 1 and 2
Until I put my feet on the ground in Costa Rica, I was hesitant to say with any certainty that ...

Taking Dad Home
Per Dad's wishes, we brought his remaining ashes home to West Virginia this past weekend. It was the second service ...

Charleston, West Virginia
In decades of trips to West Virginia to visit my grandparents and extended family, I have never, to my knowledge, ...

Three Days in Boston – Part Three
On my third and final full day in Boston, we met Amy in Beacon Hill after her morning appointment. Pre-Covid, ...

Three Days in Boston – Part Two
Monday in Boston was one satisfying discovery after another. The skies were clear, so the city looked glorious. We grabbed ...

Three Days in Boston – Part One
About ten years ago, give or take, my dear friend Amy started traveling to Boston annually under the care of ...

It’s Almost Summer
We are trudging through the worst part of the school year, those last few weeks of tedious work before finally ...

The First Girls Weekend of 2021
I don't need to explain Girls Weekend anymore, do I? We're entering the third decade of these trips, so if ...

Our New Runner
A few months ago, sometime in the fall, Jackson started going for short runs on our cul-de-sac. He'd throw on ...

Lifting the Anvil
When I woke up on January 1, 2021, I felt lighter, as if in the night I'd dropped 20 pounds ...

A Goodbye Letter to 2020
Dearest 2020, I knew you were trouble from the start. While I am grateful for myriad things - extra one-on-one ...

Christmas 2020
Well before Thanksgiving was underway, I knew I didn't want to stay home for Christmas. Obviously, a pandemic makes this ...

Spreading Dad’s Ashes
Before Dad passed away, we all talked about what he wanted to happen with his remains. No question, his heart ...

Grandpa
Here I go again asking that you keep my family in your thoughts: My grandpa died suddenly and swiftly on ...

The Holidays and Impending Doom
Last week I sat in the car with a dear friend as I finally said the words I've been holding ...

20 Years
Ten years ago this week, we took family photos in Amarillo. It was a weird time - Chuck was living ...

Life in the After
I don't know what to call this space - these days that unfolded "after Dad died". I don't want everything ...

Buck up, Kid
When I try to recount the last nine months, the one looming shadow over everything was Dad’s illness. Everything changed ...

42
August signifies two things: The impending return of school and my birthday. In fact, I don't want to even think ...

A Check-In at the Midpoint
The Great Pause is long gone, that beautiful, restorative, slower pace my family enjoyed throughout April and May. I can’t ...

Father’s Day 2020
The Przyluckis came in town to celebrate Becky's birthday and Father's Day, so we soaked in more family time over ...

Miller Quarantine Vacation House and Jackson Turns 14
We've had back-to-back weekends of house guests, first with Karin and the kids, then Corey and Alex, and finally, my ...

Summer is here and hell is empty
Becky, Jeff, and Owen came to town last week to be with us as we heard the results of Dad's ...

First Boat Day of the Season
Despite all of the temptation to buy a boat, we've decided to spend another summer season renting one. (It is ...

Garden Serenity and a Family Update
Right now, in between our sluggish attempt to finish the school year and staying up-to-date on COVID-19 news, I'm sourcing ...

My Safer-At-Home Begins and Thoughts on The Great Pause
First of all, Happy Birthday, Dad! It's a milestone, and I'm so grateful for it 🙂 While most of the ...

A Hike in the Woods
Almost daily I feel overwhelming gratitude for where we live. Not just America, not just East Tennessee. I love our ...

The Coronavirus Curveball
We are two weeks into Dad's treatment for cardiac sarcoma, and now the rehab center, where he lives full time, ...

On the Eve of Chemotherapy and Super Tuesday
Those two things, in theory, should be unrelated, but sometimes things fall together on a calendar for a reason. For ...

How is it February?
I don't even know where to begin. My father had a stroke on Dec. 8 while on a business trip ...

Christmas 2019
By now most of you know my parents are in California on account of a medical emergency with my dad ...

A Full Moon in December
It has been a full week fraught with surprise, worry, and anticipation. We are near the end of our fall ...

Thanksgiving 2019
We were happy to host family for Thanksgiving dinner, and it ended up being the first year we mixed both ...

Autumn 2019
More has gone on here than our trip to England and Wales, so it would be a shame to make ...

The UK with Karin: Day 8
It was our final full day in the UK, and we wanted to make the most of it. Instead of ...

The UK with Karin: Day 7
Like I said in the previous post, our AirBNB in Nant-y-Derry was a DELIGHT, even though it didn't have WiFi ...

The UK with Karin: Day 6
I was still high as a kite the morning after meeting Philippa Gregory at Sudeley Castle, deliriously happy as we ...

Races No. 23 and 24
Just when I think I'm done running half marathons, I convince myself to run "just one more." When I learned ...

The UK with Karin: Day 5
Our fifth day in England was the most special. Not only was it the day that our driver showed up ...

The UK with Karin: Day 4
To Windsor! We hopped the train again, this time westbound to the tiny town of Windsor. Last year we visited ...

The UK with Karin: Day 3
When Karin said she wanted to see Hever Castle, I didn't mind one bit. Interestingly, it was on our third ...

The UK with Karin: Day 2
We both enjoyed every second of sleep we got that first night. It is definitely the trade-off for flying overnight ...

The UK with Karin: Day 1
When Karin and I met in 2001, we became fast friends. This is actually the same origin story for all ...

16 and a quick trip to West Virginia
I seem to average one post a month these days, so that's a good indication of how busy we've been ...

August 2019
We're only halfway through the month, but the momentum of the new school is already giving me whiplash. Is summer ...

My Week Alone
Earlier in the spring, my sister asked me if Jeremy wanted to join Owen on his summer youth trip, and ...

Family, the 4th, and Starcourt Mall
My Uncle Bob and his wife, Carie, came to visit the week of July 4th, and I was more than ...

Carillon Beach with Karin
I know, I know - we just went on vacation. BUT, Karin and I like to skip out of town ...

2019 European Vacation: Day Eight in London
As promised, we made sure the boys set their feet in London before flying back to the States. A quick ...

2019 European Vacation: Days Six and Seven in Milan, Italy
The weather was a bit gray when we left Levanto, an indication that the remainder of our Italian experience would ...

2019 European Vacation: Day Five in Levanto and Cinque Terre, Italy
It was hard to leave France, if I'm honest. We had just found our stride with the neighborhood and language, ...

2019 European Vacation: Day Four in Antibes and Cannes during the Film Festival
We scheduled a morning to sleep in and take our time, which was necessary for happy moods and getting some ...

2019 European Vacation: Day Three in Monaco for the Formula 1 Grand Prix Practice
If you'd have told me as recently as January that I would want to go to Monaco for a Formula ...

2019 European Vacation: Day Two in Antibes, Côte d’Azur (the French Riviera)
It was a genius move to sleep in the hotel connected to Gatwick Airport because our Easy Jet flight from ...

2019 European Vacation: Day One in Kingston-Upon-Thames and Brighton
Last year, when Chuck and I flew to the UK, we opted for an overnight flight so we wouldn't lose ...